Hey guys! Thank you for visiting my second home. A few days ago I shared some relationships tips in my Instagram stories and asked you guys if you would like to see a video answering your questions about our relationship and many of you said YES! Well, I thought it would be even better if I made this a series here on the blog and I will answer questions or even dilemmas once a month!
In today’s blog post I will be answering some of the questions I got so grab some popcorn or a snack and let’s do this!
Q: WHAT MADE YOU WANT TO MOVE IN WITH RUDY? & HOW DO YOU DEAL WITH FAMILY CRITICISM?
A: Fun fact, I didn’t want to move in with Rudy because I wanted to do that once we got married. Something very hard and sad happened in my life at the moment and Rudy opened the door to his house where we lived for a month after that we moved to our own place. At first, my family was very upset but they understood and now they are so supportive! Also now that I am past the storm, I can see that God let that happen to place me right where I am. Yes, I wished things were different but I am thankful.
Q: WHAT IS THE APPROPRIATE AGE TO DATE?
A: Well my dad let me start dating at the age of 16 and I actually waited until 16 to start dating. I feel like the right age is when you are mature enough to say no, you know what’s right and wrong and can make your own decisions. Being in love can be dangerous sometimes so wait until you are mature.
Q: WHAT KEEPS A GOOD AND HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP ALIVE?
A: DATING DATING DATING!! Me and Rudy have 3 years together and we live together so we see each other every day and honestly sometimes the fun of it kinda goes away and sometimes we forget to date and go out to the movies or go to a park or even plan a spa day (which we are planning now) I feel like if you and your boyfriend/husband stop dating, the relationship can become very stiff and boring so never stop dating!
Q: IF YOUR PARTNER DOES SOMETHING YOU DON’T LIKE, DO YOU ADDRESS IT OR LET IT SLIDE?
A: We address everything right away! I am very very vocal so if something is bothering me I will let him know. Also Rudy. We were bad at communicating at first but now we mastered it. You can’t let things build up because there will be a point where you will burst out with emotions and it can hurt your relationship. always keep it 100%, babe!
Q: HOW DO YOU BOTH KEEP GOD AT THE CENTER OF YOUR RELATIONSHIP?
A: I get this question often, It is hard for me to answer sometimes because Rudy was not a believer or Christian like me and that was one of the biggest flaws in our relationship because I am a believer and I view things differently. For a while, I was introducing Jesus to rudy and I prayed about it a lot. Jesus has a way to save his children. I know he put us together so he can be saved and he can know more about him. Our relationship wouldn’t be where it is if Rudy refused to know him but he did. Yes, he got a long way to go but I love when we pray together, read scriptures together and most importantly, seeing him grow in faith has been the most amazing thing.
Q: FAVORITE THING TO DO WITHOUT EACH OTHER?
A: It is soo important to do your own thing separate from your partner. For me it is my blog, recording videos and my social media! For Rudy is the gym, reading & going on bike rides!
I hope you guys enjoyed this blog post! it got real very quickly but i love opening up to you guys! Don’t forget to comment more questions for the next one below!